What a day. I received an email from our son’s middle school that was overtly political. When I posted it I blacked out the name of the school because I really don’t want to jam them up, but I also want it to be known what public school resources are being used for. Later in the day I received an email with identical language (that most likely was written by the White House) from my younger son’s school. The subject line said it was a forward from our district’s superintendent. I was unable to locate her email address, so I sent an email to our school board president. I wasn’t nasty, but I let her know I objected to school resources being used to send out political propaganda. I also let her know that we have been happy with our district for the most part. Here was her response:
It is a very sad fact that public education has become a political pawn. School districts function by way of taxpayer, state and federal funds. It is unacceptable that students, particularly our students with special needs, will be hurt the most if Sequestration occurs.
School districts all over the country urge their parents/ tax payers to contact their state and local legislators to express THEIR thoughts on school funding every budget season. We are no different. For the past 3 years we have posted our legislators contact info on our website. In this case, the opportunity to sign a national petition to “Take Action” to avoid Sequestration was offered to our parents via the building e-mail blasts. The choice to act was left to personal choice. The decision to offer our parents a way to express their thoughts was made by Dr. Kendrick and had my full support and that of the board.
I am sorry you and your husband were disturbed by our choice, but I know that we can’t offer the quality education that JD parents demand and our students deserve without active and involved parents. These days, that also does mean politically. JD was among hundreds of thousands of districts across the country to offer their parents a voice about Sequestration. This has nothing do do with political affiliation. It is solely about putting our students first.
My job is to advocate for our students and our taxpayers and I will continue to do so. I am so pleased to hear that you are otherwise happy with our school district.
I had my own response typed up and ready to go but my husband intervened. He agreed with everything I said, but added “Go ahead and send it, even if it costs me business.” That’s what we’ve come to. Or I should say, that’s where we’ve been for years. Just shut up and don’t make waves while you work your freaking ass off to pay the taxes that pay the salaries and benefits of the public sector while the debt we’re leaving our children these people purport to advocate for continues to add up. If this isn’t Orwellian I don’t know what is.
This is just one of those days when I just want to cry, or throw my hands up in the air and give up. I can’t speak my mind because if I do it could hamper our ability to make a living. Even writing this blog post could be a problem. But I refuse to sit here completely mute.
Anyway, this reminded me of an Andrew Klavan video that’s now almost four years old. “Shut up,” it’s called.
Oh, by the way, here’s the response I would have sent our school board president if I wasn’t told to shut up.
Well, the children and taxpayers you say you’re advocating for are collectively $16.6 trillion in debt. By the time my children graduate from high school it will be well over $20 trillion. Families are forced every day to live within our means. It’s time the government does so too, including local governments and school districts. There are many plans on the table to avoid the sequestration, yet the email only contained information from the White House, where the sequestration was concocted. You say the message was not political, but it didn’t say to contact the White House and tell President Obama to make cuts elsewhere, only Congress. The message was quite clear. Had it said contact Congress and the White House, or given more than one side of the issue I would have no objection.
But I do appreciate your response so thank you for that.
I didn’t think it was that confrontational, but I didn’t send it. On to Plan B. I don’t think shutting up will be part of that plan.
One more thing, and I hate to make this sound like a bleg, but independent bloggers like myself are here every day putting our livelihoods on the line to do what we do. We don’t get paychecks for doing this. We make money from advertisers and support from our readers. That’s it. If anything happened to my husband or his business, at the rate this blog is going I would have to quit this and go back to full time work, leaving my children in the hands of the state for up to ten hours a day.
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It’s sad but true what you say, Lonely Conservative. I put up with school politics for many years. I even got in a few political scrapes but realized that, in the end, the only ones who were hurt were my own children. The system has ways of making you miserable with their creeping PC.
Now that I’m retired and my own kids are grown, I really don’t care what they think of me anymore. I speak out and often and, surprisingly, find that there are many more like me but they just don’t want to be noticed.
We’ve got the numbers on our side to turn this mess around, but it is a tedious and time-consuming process. Everyone must do whatever they can. Your excellent internet side is a good one.
By the way, my grandkids are being homeschooled by their father, a disabled Marine with the help, part-time, of his college instructor wife. It has worked nicely and it gives him something to keep him from worrying about his troubles.
There is always an answer. God bless.
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Shut Up http://t.co/nRgW0w1iAy via @lonelycon #TCOT Help a blogger stand against tyranny, and please hit her freaking tip jar.
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That woman’s arrogant response was as if she never read your letter and had a boilerplate ready for sending.
They don’t and won’t care until you have a choice of where your tax dollars are spent on education.
I know it’s expensive and you’ll pay your taxes on top of it but aside from home schooling, private schooling is one of the only options you have.
It’s frustrating and schools know that they have most parents in a headlock because they know they get your money one way or another, the kids be damned. As I mentioned before in a comment, mass political action at a school board meeting might get their attention.
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Lonely Conservative, this comment of yours is revealing of the great distrust you have of others, based strictly on political bias. This is a great concern of mine.
For example, I read the letter from the school official as advocating for a quality education for your children, while you read the same words as a political assault.
Like you, we were residents of upstate NY when we raised our two girls, and were able to accomplish this on one salary (IBM) and a willing and engaged stay-at-home mom, through college education of our two daughters, obtaining their master’s degrees, and two large weddings which each of them wanted. When our daughters were in high school, my wife did take on part-time employment in a lawyers office, plus she started a small business, all this in the ’70′s to ’90′s time frame. We were a typical middle class family during those years. Now we are retired and enjoying the next generation of four grandchildren, much like northfloridawriter here. And by the way, our daughters got an excellent education in the Wappingers School District.
But times have changed for the worst since then, which you are obviously feeling. It’s complicated to the extent that there are many reasons for the change, foremost of which, in my mind, is the laissez faire approach begun during the Reagan years, the results of which have promoted Wall Street greed and misbehavior, combined with governmental corruption and mismanagement.
More than ever now, the moneyed class dominates financially and politically, to the point where the upper 1% controls about 50% of the wealth of this nation, which enables this small minority to bring our federal government into a dysfunctional state of existence; thus we have a plutocracy. Our current financial and social problems are hardly able to be addressed meaningfully; instead we go from crisis to crisis with both sides engaged in games of chicken.
Moreover, and worse yet, telling the truth is becoming more rare as political talking points have been substituted for truth. The Andrew Klavin video you posted is just one example of many, predominately from your side of the aisle it seems to me.
The propagandistic preachings of the likes of Limbaugh and Malkin, together with the Fox News crowd, have created in folks like you a fear and distrust of everything from school systems to government, a pale of pessimism which permeates our environment. and hinders our ability to step up to the challenges of our times. The result is a preponderance of criticism and a paucity of solutions.
At this point it seems that we either decide to work together on solutions or prolong our dysfunction. It really is possible to cling to our principles while grasping pragmatism and compromise, as in the past, a concept which seems to have fallen out of favor especially among our friends on the Right.
We simply must do better than this, if not for ourselves at least for our children
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Bwahahaha! Incredible rubbish. An obvious LIV with a propensity for pointless platitudes mixed with a nonsensical lexicon of fatuous bromides. It’s so old and failed.
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Like I said michigan: “The result is a preponderance of criticism and a paucity of solutions.”
Are you unable to step up to solutions, thus only criticize?
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As I mentioned, WW. You provide no solutions. Details please.
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A shorter wagonwheel: “there is no value in conservative viewpoints because I say so. so you should stop standing by your principles and do what we tell you, for the children.”
And even shorter wagonwheel: “because shut up.”
You should block any further garbage from that commenter. Sorry you couldn’t respond to that pompous email Karen. How frustrating.
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Linda: My message was to stick to ones principles while being willing to work out solutions. Principled people understand the practical necessity for this.
Then you paraphrase me incorrectly as my trying to shut LC up, and turn around to demand that I be shut up. Where’s the sensible logic here?
You simply cannot be taken seriously. How about dealing with my argument instead of mischaracterizing it as you just did? Then you can be taken seriously!
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Exactly, but they won’t say it because they can’t. The truth of their solutions is so antithetical to humanity and freedom that it must be camouflaged and shifted through verbal chicanery and deceit for if their monstrous intent ever be known; it would shake the individual to their core. It’s such a bore to read the same arrogant, bigoted and circuitous missives purporting historically tried, failed and murderous ideals that have been thrust upon men since evil.
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Stop passing the buck, WW. Where are your details or are you out catching crickets?
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Michigan: You are obviously unwilling to have an honest debate, on details already laid out.
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You’re disingenuous and a bore. Please stop wasting readers’ time with your blather that brings nothing new, salient or persuasive to an open exchange of ideas. It’s now quite obvious that you’re just using this blog as a platform for leftist propaganda / talking points. How very insulting.
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Remember this @andrewklavan video? Shut Up http://t.co/az9J28nMUv via @lonelycon
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Concern Trolls like Wagonwheel have become such bores. It’s the same old, same old every time. Keep spinning in your rut – we’ve got more important things to do.
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As usual from the radical Right, unwilling to step up to a discussion, they retreat to ad hominems and unspecified meaningless charges.
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Think of this as a party where the door was left open. You stroll in and start bothering people. We attempt to tolerate you. We walk away from you but you keep getting in our faces and interrupting our conversations. So the moment you step outside we close and lock the door.
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Shut Up http://t.co/TeN1SNcPo9 via @lonelycon | School board becomes political shill for #Obama. Your tax dollars at work folks!
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Oh, Gawd. That school board president is a disingenuous gasbag (though, to her credit, less so than Wagonwheel). We took teachers unions’ and school boards’ word that all they needed was more money to improve and have been shoveling money at public primary and secondary education for decades, yet all they can manage to produce is craptastic test scores and even more crying about how they need more money. Meanwhile, they fought against vouchers and any sort of meaningful teacher evaluation reform with every ounce of their beings. The problem couldn’t possibly be with the teachers, administrators and their unions, right? I know that in my state the teachers’ union has been so far in bed with the Democrats that they wrote their own ticket for at least four or five decades. The result is that their own pension fund is ready to collapse.
So what does the union do? Run TV ads telling voters to bitch at their congresscritters to give them more money (it’s “for the children”, who will end up illiterate and living in a van down by the river if the state doesn’t give in to their extortion demands, naturally). You tell your school board president that if using schools as a political pawn is so sad, she should maybe talk to the President and teachers’ union before she comes to you demanding to put her hand in your wallet and tries to hold your kids’ education hostage.
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“”The propagandistic preachings of the likes of Limbaugh and Malkin, together with the Fox News crowd, have created in folks like you a fear and distrust of everything from school systems to government, a pale of pessimism which permeates our environment. and hinders our ability to step up to the challenges of our times. The result is a preponderance of criticism and a paucity of solutions.”"
Watching the lame stream media over the last 5 years with their total worship of the “one”, only leaves me Fox, and BECK as a network that a least shows the other side. You can continue to wait for the “one” to come up with a solution to our problems. Putting the trust in a man who has never had a job in his life or met a payroll seems to me a way towards total and complete destruction of our economy. The “one” is out to destroy us, not to help us. IF you can’t see that you sir are deaf and blind, because you can see it every where you turn !
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” Putting the trust in a man who has never had a job in his life or met a payroll seems to me a way towards total and complete destruction of our economy.” Bingo! and a big high five, Mrs Corrine, for succinctly getting to the root of the problem….and we can’t fix stupid.
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TRUTH FOLLOWS @mistere7777 @lonelycon
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The Lonely Conservative: Shut Up, The School Board President Explained http://t.co/nXpXre4GTN @lonelycon
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“Compromise. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.”
OK. Here’s my compromise. Take the current figures on per-pupil spending in the school district, and return it to the parents in the form of a voucher good for paying tuition at ANY school, public or private, and specifically including religious-based. And to deflect one inevitable strawman, yes, religious based includes Islamic.
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